When life gets you down listen to Kandee....

A while ago I came across this wonderful girl who does makeup videos on youtube.  Her life story has inspired me and I have followed her blog ever since.  I have had some judgments passed against me recently and I was feeling pretty bad about it.  Until I read this... (the text written below is all her thoughts and I have copied it onto my blog just to be able to keep it in my journal so I take no credit as to what is written)

How To Deal with Negative People

Everyone has dealt with negative people in their life. Some people live with negative people. Some people are in relationships with negative people. Some of us go to school, work, or have friends that are the negatives in our lives.

I'll tell you one thing....the negative people will always be around...BUT, the big BUT is.... you don't have to let them and their "stinkin' thinkin"...their sad way of bringing negativity to everything..their facebook posts, their tweets, their thought of the world, the day, celebrities..whoever... Imagine just how few comments their would be on facebook if no one posted negative comments, complaints, or mean words about someone or something.... most humans favorite past times..."complaining, gossiping and trash talking someone or something"... wouldn't know where to go.... or maybe just maybe would they try to say something good, kind or encouraging.. AND in the process they would realize that they were allowing more happiness and love into their lives...

The thoughts you let stay....

become the very way...

that you feel and think today...

Are you talking about the latest celebrity gossip?

Are you criticizing the way someone is dressed?

Are you venting your anger about someone instead of forgiving and thinking about good things?

I get lots of emails about this and wanted to make a video to help empower, encourage and give you a new way to deal with the NEGATIVE PEOPLE in your life!

REMEMBER:

heart ache and discouragement are the stepping stones to success..

others just stop on those stone and forget to keep walking

to success and happiness.

remember DON'T stop on those stones...

keep steppin' til you get to your success and happiness!

a few good quotes:

I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career.  I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times,  I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed.  I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. Michael Jordan "Our greatest glory is not in never failing, but in rising up every time we fail."                                                                                            ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street, I met a man who had no feet.  ~Ancient Persian Saying

A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly.  You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts they will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.  ~Roald Dahl (author of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory)

The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

                                                 Eleanor Roosevelt

Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.                                                        Harriet Tubman

So therefore when life gets you down listen to Kandee.  I have realized that the judgments passed against me are always going to happen so I just need to be happy with myself :)

Go have a happy successful week!

Merr